Nicolas is the size of a kindergartener at only age 3! He had his birthday this month on the 4th and is wearing mostly 5T clothes (depending on brand, of course, still some 4T). Three is, um, "trying." Test test test, push, push, push boundaries. As frustrating as it is, I also have to say it is also amazing to see his creativity flourish in the way of his imagination! It's really fun! He is very articulate for his age, is very social with both adults and children, is learning to express his emotions well, and his tantrums are (knock on wood) short-lived. He is still a very kind and empathetic soul. On his actual birthday we just had family over for cake and ice cream after dinner. The following Saturday we had a little park playdate party with some of his friends. After the party he went up to all of the guests (adult and child) unprompted, gave them hugs, and said, "Thank you for coming to my party!" I was so proud of my little boy that I was in tears. Then, we got in the car and he said, "Thank you for my party, Mommy! I had a lot of fun!" Went home, napped, he woke up and was a hellion. LOL Life with a three year old! I call them the bi-polar threes...yelling at you one minute, hugging you the next.
5.16.2009
4 Months Later...
So, here's the deal. I've been ill and still am. Not going into details here, but that is the reason for the lapse in blog posts. So what has happened in the past 4 months? Well, I turned 40, James turned 40, Emmett turned 10 (we celebrated Roman, too, since we have no idea when his birthday is), Nicolas turned 3, and Leila is almost 10 months old now. That's a lot of aging and birthdays!!! Thought I would start blogging again with that little bit of info...and share recent photos because the kids change soooo fast.
Did I also mention I am now addicted to Facebook? Because I am...I have reconnected with old friends from HS that I wished I had kept up with, women from a mom's group I left in October that wanted to stay in touch with me and vice versa, and even have made a couple of new acquaintances on there. Oh, and the applications/games! They keep this insomniac busy when I cannot sleep from pain.
First the furbabies...after all, this blog was named after them initially before our family expanded! Emmett is doing great. About ready for his 6 month back treatment, but had a great annual vet checkup. Roman seems fine other than overly guarding his food from Nicolas (ha!), but at his annual checkup he was diagnosed with a heart murmur. He is also in need of a dental. The dental I can figure out a way to swing since we already ran all the blood work over the heart murmur, but the diagnostic tests for the murmur are upwards of $750!!! :O We just don't have that. I have to look further into this with our vet about can't you just put him on medication, yada yada. Also, Roman's foster mommy said her vet tech co-worker believes no matter what the diagnostics...since it didn't show up as something in the blood work, most likely whatever they would find in ultrasound and radiology would result in the same medication at the same dose anyway. That is on my list for Monday, as well as setting up Emmett's appointment. Both have been very snuggly with me, especially Emmett, of course. To the point both kids are jealous of the dogs at times...
1.24.2009
Leila is 6 Months!
Happy 6 Months, Leila! I am enjoying you so much. You are truly a joy to be around...your smile lights up a room and your laugh is infectious. Your brother is in awe of you and so am I. I'm so glad you enjoyed your first jaunt in the Jumperoo tonight. It was adorable...
I love you, Missy Mu! Just one thing...slow down. You're growing up too fast...
Love,
Mama
1.10.2009
The Grand Pirate Nicolas
If you happen to see him swashbuckling about, please tell him how great he looks in it. ;) It's to help strengthen his left eye faster...
1.01.2009
Happy 2009!
Wishing all of you a peaceful, healthy, blessed 2009!
James let me sleep in today until nearly 11am!!! I surely needed the sleep. :) Here is what it looked like around our house after I had been up for an hour today:
Nicolas in his OWN chair Santa brought him and with a new blankie Maddie gave him, watching "The Best of Elmo" from his Kentucky grandparents and eating a snack...
James, Leila & Roman cuddled up together asleep on the couch...


Emmett curled up in his little bed by Mommy, of course, dozing off and on.

Note that Emmett has his mallard duck toy from Santa in bed with him...just in case Roman wakes up and tries to take it from him. It's been a source of argument between them since Christmas. Roman has successfully hogged all the plushies Santa brought them for Christmas but Emmett won't let him touch this one...it's special. ;)
James let me sleep in today until nearly 11am!!! I surely needed the sleep. :) Here is what it looked like around our house after I had been up for an hour today:
Nicolas in his OWN chair Santa brought him and with a new blankie Maddie gave him, watching "The Best of Elmo" from his Kentucky grandparents and eating a snack...
Emmett curled up in his little bed by Mommy, of course, dozing off and on.
Note that Emmett has his mallard duck toy from Santa in bed with him...just in case Roman wakes up and tries to take it from him. It's been a source of argument between them since Christmas. Roman has successfully hogged all the plushies Santa brought them for Christmas but Emmett won't let him touch this one...it's special. ;)
12.27.2008
The Infamous Mall Santa Pic
Here it is...Leila happy as a lark, smiling at Mama while she breaks some very loud, horrendously rank smelling wind on Mall Santa's lap. Poor Mall Santa. But, I guess that's what he gets for taking a break right as we walked up to get her photo taken, thus making us wait with a toddler and a 5 month old at a mall (which Mommy HATES anyway) during nap time, and then having his "elf" tell us he'll be back in 10 minutes but taking 45 minutes instead. Take THAT, you fraud "Santa!" Hmph! My baby does look awfully adorable, though, doesn't she? :)
12.18.2008
We need a little Christmas...
...and I think we finally have some! After two weeks, we finally have decorated the little tree we bought. Angel on top, lights and garland. We have a 5 month old and a 2.5 year old. Do I really need to explain what took so long? ;) I'm still addressing Christmas cards and need to get thank you notes out for baptism gifts. Leila was baptised almost two weeks ago. It was a beautiful baptism. Here is a photo:
Those are my first cousins, Elise & Eric, who we asked to be her Godparents. :) We had a double baptism with our friends, the Sperbers, as we were asked to be the Godparents of their son, Charlie, who is only 3 weeks older than Leila. The afternoon was lovely and Nicolas and Eddie behaved. They even got to hold the lit candles. We all held our breath, but they were good and didn't burn anything down. LOL After it was over they ran all over the church. Ha! The boys were so adorable.
I digress...back to Christmas.
So, here we are 8 days from the big event. I have yet to hang the stockings, but they are out. It finally felt like Christmas today. We had to go to SM to take Mr. N to the optometrist to check his eyes/glasses. Now we get to patch him for the next month (oh joy. oh rapture) (read that like Eeyore) 6 hours a day, 6 days a week. It's supposed to help the strength of his "lazy" eye catch up to his good eye. The glasses are doing their job, though, which is wonderful. He is good about wearing the glasses. I'll let you know how he does as Pirate Nicolas. Oy. Wish us luck!!!
So, off to SM we go. After the optometrist it was to Starbuck's with our gift cards (thank you, Heidi!), then to the SM Mall to have Miss Thang's photo taken with "Santa," or as we told Mr. N, "Santa's helper who dresses up like him, but is not really him. But, he can put a good word in for you." Right before we got in line Santa went on break. For like 45 minutes. What the heck are we supposed to do at the freaking mall with our tiny ones for 45 minutes?! Soooo, we just made the best of it. Fed Miss Thang and changed her diaper. Played with them. Talked to strangers with kiddos waiting for Santa, too. Met a mommy and her cute girls whose husband is in the secret service and stationed in Korea for a year. Gosh, that brings it all to reality, doesn't it? At least my kids' daddy is home for Christmas, right? We may be broke. We may not have a job or know what is next for James or still not know exactly what is wrong with him medically yet. But, at least he is not overseas. He's here with US.
So, we told Mr. N that Santa's helper/Santa could put a good word in for him with the real Santa at the North Pole. He wanted NOOOOO part of that dude. So, we said, ok, well we can tell him for you when Mommy takes Leila up for her photo. "NO! Daddy do it!" "Why? Are you afraid Mommy will tell him the truth? That sometimes you are naughty?" (nods yes) "Daddy do it!!!" "Ok Daddy can tell him." (James and I are laughing hysterically at this point to ourselves.) So, here we go, and I take Miss Thang up to see "Santa" for a first photo, like Nicolas had two years ago when he was a baby. It's a surprise gift for James' folks in KY because they are totally into this stuff. Anyway, she's farting away some really nasty smelling farts and smiling at mommy, and our photo...well, I'll post it tomorrow so you can see. If I could photoshop I would put bubble thoughts and she would be thinking, "look, mama, I toot on Santa!" and he would be thinking, "omg what do they feed this baby?!" Then I start to put a loud, good word in for Nicolas so he can hear that I am only telling him what a good boy he's been yada yada and he would really like a chair of his own from Santa, yada yada. He's yelling on the sidelines at me, "NO! MAMA! DADDY DO IT! DADDY DO IT!" It was like a scene from what would be "A Christmas Story...The Traditions Continue."
After the mall it was Arby's drive thru for lunch and I received an e-mail on my phone telling me that my toys r us order for my son's freaking chair was cancelled because it was out of stock and we are so sorry for the mistake. ARGH!!!!! So, off we go. In search. In SM. For THE CHAIR. I did Big Lots...don't quite have what I want. We hit a furniture store. Nope. We head home, head hung low. Mr. N has to pee. We pull over...at none other than Toys R Us for him to pee. I decide to call inside (AGAIN...did it two weeks ago) about the chair while J takes N to potty. Maybe the kid I talked to before didn't know his head from his tail. Turns out I was right. He didn't. They came out of the bathroom to the car and I went inside. Ordered the chair.,.they order from a different warehouse and had ONE. It will arrive in 7-10 days. She's putting a rush on it and hoping it gets here before Christmas. If not, I will leave a creative note from Santa. ;) James can't wait for it to arrive. He will get to drive for two hours all by himself to pick it up... Let's just say he is talking about wouldn't it be great if he could find a 60 hour/week job? hee hee Not cut out for being a SAHD. I don't think there are many men who are, though.
This post doesn't do our day justice, but it really did feel like Christmas today. It was fun. We laughed a lot. We dealt with Mall Santa fears. Nicolas got some reindeer ears from the Mall Elf who took our $11 for one 5x7" photo (from a printer no less) and that made him happy all the way home. Miss Thang got lots of naps in, so she was in a great mood this evening while I decorated the tree, and Mr. N had 30 minutes of sleep (as opposed to his normal 2-3 hour nap) so he was grouchy and having meltdowns all evening. Ha! See? It all balances out.
Roman had fun with the lights on the floor while I checked them. When the tree was done, Emmett did something he hadn't done in a long time. He lay on the floor at my feet, put his chin on my feet, and stared at the tree and sighed. It was adorable. It was like he was saying, "Ah, NOW it's Christmas." I told him we would put his Christmas collar on tonight. He looked up, cocked his head at me, wagged his tail, then laid back down on my feet.
12.14.2008
I'm on a roll...
For now, anyway! This is my second post in two days!
I sang at Mass last night. I didn't cantor, but sang in a trio. It was a last minute thing. I haven't done much singing outside of to my children since I got married. Things just got busy, then babies...you get the picture. I've missed it. It's part of who I am. Lately I have been missing that part of who I am. It's been such an important part of ME and I think I can finally wrap my brain around getting back into some music ministry. I have been called to help people pray through singing and the opportunity was there this week. I received a call about a need and said I would help. Despite a nasty head cold I've been fighting that is going into bronchitis, I followed through. Next thing I knew, I had a call from my niece saying the church she is cantoring at wants she and I to do a duet of "Mary Did You Know" for Christmas. How special! Of course I'll do that!!! Then, last night some other music ministers I know were there and would like me to join them when they do their monthly 6pm mass. How wonderful! So, like I said, the opportunities are opening up here and there. It's an easy, non-stressful way to ease back into music ministry.
It felt soooo good to sing last night. It was comfortable. It was natural. I was nervous, then when Mass started I remembered once again why I was there...to help people pray. My soul settled in and I did my job. Mom and Dad watched the kids at home (WAY too cold to take them out...they've been sneezing themselves!). James went with me to Mass and he said I sounded good. Not bad for someone with a head cold. ;)
So, I continue to ride this wave of life, and parenthood, and how to juggle my most important job of being a mommy while maintaining my sense of self worth and purpose outside of that. Life is a trip, isn't it?
I sang at Mass last night. I didn't cantor, but sang in a trio. It was a last minute thing. I haven't done much singing outside of to my children since I got married. Things just got busy, then babies...you get the picture. I've missed it. It's part of who I am. Lately I have been missing that part of who I am. It's been such an important part of ME and I think I can finally wrap my brain around getting back into some music ministry. I have been called to help people pray through singing and the opportunity was there this week. I received a call about a need and said I would help. Despite a nasty head cold I've been fighting that is going into bronchitis, I followed through. Next thing I knew, I had a call from my niece saying the church she is cantoring at wants she and I to do a duet of "Mary Did You Know" for Christmas. How special! Of course I'll do that!!! Then, last night some other music ministers I know were there and would like me to join them when they do their monthly 6pm mass. How wonderful! So, like I said, the opportunities are opening up here and there. It's an easy, non-stressful way to ease back into music ministry.
It felt soooo good to sing last night. It was comfortable. It was natural. I was nervous, then when Mass started I remembered once again why I was there...to help people pray. My soul settled in and I did my job. Mom and Dad watched the kids at home (WAY too cold to take them out...they've been sneezing themselves!). James went with me to Mass and he said I sounded good. Not bad for someone with a head cold. ;)
So, I continue to ride this wave of life, and parenthood, and how to juggle my most important job of being a mommy while maintaining my sense of self worth and purpose outside of that. Life is a trip, isn't it?
Catching Up


Here I am playing almost 3 months of blog catch up. I promise to take photos of the Wiens next and post them. In the mean time, here are the most recent photos of the kiddos, the last one being taken just this evening. Mr. N obviously didn't want to pose. Ah, the mood of the 2.5 year old!
So much has gone on the past few months. Most of you who visit here know about it all, so I won't bore you with re-stating the details. Things are better all the time, though, and we are just concentrating on enjoying our human and fur babies, who are a constant source of laughter, joy with a wee bit of frustration thrown in. (Potty training...one step forward, two back. New baby. Regression. Need I say more?) Over all, we couldn't ask for sweeter, kinder, more gentle and hilarious children and dachsies to be quite honest. Despite the challenges (all of which have been things out of our control), God takes care of me and my little family and we are truly blessed. I would like to point out the obvious from the photos, though...Nicolas got glasses and he is seeing really well! I'm not sure he knew what the leaves on the trees really looked like before he got them. Poor little guy. :(
Other than that, I have to say James and I have become addicted to Facebook. We have both found old friends on there and it is just wonderful to reconnect. It has also been a great way to keep up with current friends who live far away. Finally, it is the reason I am up so late right now, so I'm off to bed. I do want to blog about an incident that happened in October, but it's too late right now and I'm too tired. Until later...
